When people say: “Be realistic,” what they really mean is:
“Do what everyone else is doing,”
“Don’t stand out,” and
“I can’t see what you’re seeing.”
If you’re a dreamer, creator, or a visionary, you believe in something that only exists in your mind - for now.
Everything we observe in our reality only existed in someone’s mind at one point, but they believed in it so much that they brought it to reality.
The only way to create is to believe in something so strongly that you don’t need others to believe in it and you don’t seek approval from them.
It’s not their job to keep your dream alive. That is your job.
As soon as you wake up, you are starting to create a momentum. You start creating energy that will persist throughout your entire day.
If you’re not aware that you’re creating a momentum, it just means that you’re creating it by default.
It means you’re letting random thoughts and feelings to dictate your internal experience and your actions. You’re unconsciously reacting and when you’re doing that, you’re creating a negative momentum. And once it gets going it takes great amount of energy and emotional resource to interrupt it and change it.
Morning is the time when it’s the easiest to create on purpose instead of by default.
Does your morning routine feel calm and grounding or chaotic? Is it setting you up for a great day or for overwhelm?
Don’t overthink this. Don’t worry about having to do things like everyone else is suggesting. Think about how would you like to feel throughout the day and what would help you connect to that feeling as soon as you wake up.
You don’t need to change your whole routine if that feels overwhelming. Introduce small changes and build on them
A single session coaching can be help you to:
Challenge your thinking
Get a different perspective
Understand the cause of your issue
Problem solve & talk through a decision
How it helps?
When you’re stuck in a thinking loop that’s getting you further into suffering instead of out of it, an objective perspective can help disrupt that pattern and guide you towards a more productive mindset.
What are the benefits?
Receiving support when you're ready and open to it
It's practical - there's no commitment to ongoing sessions
It's convenient - you pick and self-schedule the time that works for you
If you’re needing support through the stuck points without committing to weekly therapy/coaching OR suffering in silence, go here and book the day and time that works for you!
Don’t give up your uniqueness because you’re afraid of being misunderstood. You WILL be misunderstood, especially if you’re following your own truth instead of conventional wisdom. You will be misunderstood if you challenge the norms instead of blindly follow them. Sometimes you need to make the brave choice of trusting yourself even if others don’t seem to understand you.