When you’re needy and desperate you don’t attract what you want, you attract what you’re afraid of. When you’re desperate and needy you are scared. You’re scared you won’t get what you want or that you will lose something you have. You are in a state of lack. Abundance is not attracted to a state of lack. We can’t receive what we want from a state of neediness and desperation, but from a state of deep trust and acceptance. We can’t receive what we want from a state of neediness and desperation, but from a state of deep trust and acceptance. Abundance is not attracted to fear and lack but to trust and confidence.
If you think long enough about a painful memory, you will feel as if you’re reliving it in the moment.
If you think long enough about an exciting future, you will feel as if it’s happening now. Your energy will mirror the things you focus on long enough, so be deliberate with thoughts and images you bring to life. There are so many situation in which we had no choice as children. We simply lived by the rules we learned and adopted them as truths. As children, we didn’t have a choice but to be around people who kept hurting us, but as adult we do. Staying in situations and with people who are hurtful is an old rule we no longer need to live by.
There is no point at which someone tells that those rules no longer apply and we get to choose which ones we want to keep and which ones we want to let go. We often takes old principles to adulthood not fully realizing that we no longer have to stay in situations or around people that keep hurting us. You may never grow and change in someone else’s mind. People may not want to give up the opinion they have of you. In their mind, you may always remain a one-dimensional character.
Once someone thinks they know you, they may never change their mind. Everything you say or do may be filtered through a well established opinion they have of you. It’s not your job to change their mind. You don’t need to prove anything to anybody. What matters is whether you let yourself be who you want to be. What matters is that you don’t reduce yourself to one trait, one mistake, one opinion, or one interest. You can be so many different things at the same time. If you found this helpful, you may enjoy What Will People Think? blog post. |
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