We tend to think that making the "right" decision should feel good—clear, affirming, maybe even a little empowering. But the truth is, good decisions are often inconvenient. They interrupt our comfort, require effort, and ask us to tolerate discomfort in the service of something more meaningful. Whether it's setting a boundary, committing to therapy, or choosing rest over productivity, the choices that move us forward rarely come wrapped in ease. But that doesn’t mean they’re wrong—it usually means they matter.

We’re not meant to stay the same—but our self-definitions often keep us stuck. In this post, we explore how labels and identities, even the ones we choose, can quietly limit growth, creativity, and connection. If you’ve ever felt trapped by who you used to be, this is your invitation to let yourself evolve.