InneR Becoming Blog

In my newsletter I write about cultivating a life that feels easier, truer, and more meaningful - no fixing, optimizing or turning yourself into a project. I share personal experiences that have shaped me, along with the things I can’t stop thinking about: curiosities, obsessions, a-ha moments, contradictions, and whatever else makes life feel colorful and alive.

And yes, in a true psychotherapist fashion, I can't help but throw in an occasional unsolicited advice and share practical self-discovery tools.

Come along for the ride!

Do Things You’re Bad At

If there’s anything I’ve mastered during my life, it’s the art of being a beginner. Every novice chapter I’ve entered has come with its fair share of frustration, confusion, and humility. But also fun, aliveness, and joy.

When I’m in the midst of those frustrating moments, I catch myself thinking “Why do I keep doing this to myself?!”

But the truth is — I’m not doing it to myself. I’m doing it for myself.

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