InneR Becoming Blog
Focus on You
Instead of trying to change and fix others, focus your energy on ways in which you can show up as the person you want to be.
Anything You Admire in Others, You Have Within Yourself
Do you tend to compare yourself unfavorably to others and believe they have qualities that you don't?
Anything you recognize in others (authenticity, confidence, ambition, free spirit, self-trust, optimism, playfulness, creativity,...) is inside of you.
On Being Yourself
You’re not struggling to “be yourself.” You’re struggling because you believe you need to be someone else.
Celebrate Yourself Now!
Don't wait for major changes and big accomplishments to celebrate yourself.
If you always compare yourself to where you want to be, you'll never be happy because you'll always be focused on what's missing and what you don't have yet.
Fear of Disappointment
Don’t be afraid of disappointment. You will be disappointed one way or another at some point in life.
The only wait to avoid it is to stay in the same place your whole life and never try anything new. And if you let it, a fear of disappointment will make your world really small and dull.
What is your version of thriving?
This journaling prompt will start your month on a high note and will have your brain juices flow in all the best ways!
What is your version of thriving?
On Difficult Seasons of Life
Some seasons of life will be more difficult than others and that’s ok. No one promised us life continuously filled with ease and comfort.
Limiting Beliefs
Beliefs that helped us survive will not help us thrive. They will keep us stuck.
Any set of beliefs that hold us back and limit our growth, helped us adapt and survive in particular set of circumstances, usually unhealthy, traumatic, and disfunctional environments.
Reflection Question
When your day is over, will you thank yourself for the choices you made today or will you feel like you held yourself back and treated yourself like an enemy?
Do it Imperfect
Don’t be afraid to take an imperfect action.
Trust that, everything you need to know, you will learn along the way. Stop putting your dreams on pause because you don’t have all the tools or knowledge yet. There is no perfect version of you that you need to get to so you can finally be more brave.
You're Not Behind
You’re not behind. Or falling short.
You’re exactly where you need to be.
Learning the lessons you need to be learning.
Intentional Action Practice
You will never get what you want by focusing on what you don’t want.
Replace actions that perpetuate shame, worry, and self-judgment with actions that invite change, possibilities, and personal power!
Let's do Coaching!
Today I am officially certified!
I have fully immersed myself in learning the most empowering tools and concepts from coaches that inspire and lead by example.
As your coach, my role is to help you gain awareness of your own mind, identify beliefs that keep you stuck in creating results you don’t want, and help you find your own answers towards freedom and self-trust.
Expect More of Yourself
Expect more of yourself.
Not because you need to achieve something to finally feel worthy, but because you are already worthy and you deserve better.
Your Biggest Adventures Are Ahead of You
When we’re young, the belief that our greatest adventures are yet to happen, comes naturally to us. But over time we start limiting ourselves more and more.
Approaching life with a sense of wonder gets lost over time.
Do it For You!
When you think to yourself, “Why do I have to do all this work?!” remember that you don’t have to. You’re choosing to.
All the work you’re doing, you’re doing FOR yourself. You are doing it because you want better quality of life, you want more freedom, calm and connection.
Start Where You Are
Start with where you are and with what you can do!
Don’t wait for a major change. Instead, focus on the small things that can be completed today and will make tomorrow easier. Look around you and focus on what’s unfinished.
Utilize the Resources You Already Have
If you actively engage in introspection and personal development, you already have a lot of wisdom and experience you can draw from when you come across a challenge or a struggle. Often, it's not that you need to learn something new.
Same Challenges Different You
You may be facing the same challenges as before but a different version of you is facing them.
Same challenges don't mean that you’re in the same place as before.
3 Mindset Obstacles That Hold You Back in Life & Business.
Managing our mind is one of the most important skills any business owner needs to master in order to be efficient, productive, and successful. Learning how to manage our minds means knowing how to silence the mental noise and to guide our minds so they work for us, not against us. When our mind is clear and unburdened, that’s when intuition can shine through and we can make our best decisions, achieve results, and be creative.