If there’s anything I’ve mastered during my life, it’s the art of being a beginner. Every novice chapter I’ve entered has come with its fair share of frustration, confusion, and humility. But also fun, aliveness, and joy.

When I’m in the midst of those frustrating moments, I catch myself thinking “Why do I keep doing this to myself?!”

But the truth is — I’m not doing it to myself. I’m doing it for myself.

This year I’ve been doing some things differently. For starters, I didn’t set any goals or intentions. No word of the year.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re running behind or that you’ve missed your chance, I’m here to tell you: you haven’t. Being a late bloomer means you’re doing things in your own time and in your own way. It’s a testament to your courage, your resilience, and your authenticity. Trust your timing. Celebrate the richness of your unique path. Life isn’t about meeting someone else’s expectations; it’s about discovering who you are and becoming the person you were always meant to be—on your own terms.