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Do Things You’re Bad At
If there’s anything I’ve mastered during my life, it’s the art of being a beginner. Every novice chapter I’ve entered has come with its fair share of frustration, confusion, and humility. But also fun, aliveness, and joy.
When I’m in the midst of those frustrating moments, I catch myself thinking “Why do I keep doing this to myself?!”
But the truth is — I’m not doing it to myself. I’m doing it for myself.
End of Year Questions for Insight & Integration
Some years don’t ask to be summarized—they ask to be felt. Rather than tying things up or rushing toward resolution, these questions invite a gentler kind of reflection, one that makes space for insight, integration, and what’s still unfolding.
Anything Can Look Easy When Others are Doing it
We start believing that most things should be easy, and when they inevitably become difficult, we misinterpret the discomfort as a sign to quit instead of a normal part of growth. Or we place ourselves a victim of our circumstances and we take away our choices to even attempt change. The truth is that most worthwhile things require effort, intentional prioritizing, and a willingness to push our growth edges. They ask us to act differently than we’re used to.
Shadow Desire Journaling Prompts
These journaling prompts are a guided way to connect to the desire beneath the desire—the one we tend to avoid because it feels too big or too disruptive to name. If you’ve been sensing something calling you but haven’t quite been able to claim it, this practice will help you move past fear and into a deeper, more honest clarity about what you actually want.
Why We Sabotage Our Own Plans And Resist What’s Good for Us
You’ve probably experienced the strange dynamics of resisting something you consciously chose for yourself. You set a goal, commit to a routine, or contemplate a change that has a potential to benefit you. But when the moment comes, some invisible wall rises up.
You feel trapped. Irritated. Like the plan is now a burden, not a choice. You feel feel boxed in—even when the box is one you built yourself.
You Don’t Need a 10-Step Morning Routine.
You don’t need a 10-step ritual to change your mornings. Just a few intentional minutes can ground your mind and steady your day.
Are Limiting Beliefs Really Our Enemy?
We love to blame our limiting beliefs for holding us back. But what we often call “limiting” are really old protective strategies—beliefs that once kept us safe, even if they feel restrictive now. Instead of trying to erase them, what if we learned to understand, integrate, and move with them? Growth doesn’t always mean fixing yourself. Sometimes it means listening differently.
Be Selective. Not Every Offer is an Opportunity.
Protective choices aren’t always unhelpful, sometimes they’re wise. But part of maturing is knowing when that old strategy no longer serves who we are today.
When we reach that threshold, we need new ways of knowing what’s right for us. Or maybe not new, but long overlooked: that quiet, immediate, embodied response.
Reframing Regret: Journaling Prompts to Integrate Regret And Move Forward
Regret can keep you stuck in the past, but it can also point you toward what you truly value today. Learn how to reframe regret, integrate your past choices, and make empowered decisions in the present. Includes reflective journaling prompts to help you move forward.
Practical And Gentle Way Out of Overwhelm
When overwhelm hits, our first instinct is often to push harder—to make more lists, to power through with stress and willpower. But stress can’t take us where we truly want to go. Overwhelm isn’t a sign of failure; it’s the body’s way of saying we’ve reached capacity and need to return to presence. By slowing down, softening into our senses, and treating even one small action as sacred, we discover that clarity and ease arise not from force, but from surrender.
Creative Journaling Ideas That Actually WOrk!
Journaling can take on many different forms depending on what you need that day—whether it’s clarity, catharsis, or simply a spark of playfulness.
Whether you are new to journaling or you’d like to breathe fresh life into your current writing routine, these 7 creative ways to journal can help you uncover new layers of yourself.
Wisdom of Envy: From Comparison to Self-Understanding
Envy doesn’t always have to be the villain in our story. When we stop treating it as a flaw to hide and start seeing it as a signal, envy becomes a powerful compass. It points us toward desires we’ve buried, dreams we’ve delayed, and qualities we’re longing to embody. Instead of spiraling into comparison or self-criticism, we can learn to pause, listen, and let envy show us what we truly want next.
Benefits of Losing Control
We often believe control is the key to success—if we plan enough, work harder, or tighten our grip, life will finally fall into place. But the paradox of control is that the more we cling, the more resistance we create. True resilience and growth come not from force, but from learning to let go. By loosening our grip, we make space for flow, trust, and unexpected possibilities.
3 Stupidly Simple Rituals That Restored My Sanity
These simple acts of self-care prove that you don’t need a 10-step morning routine to get unstuck and feel grounded and in control.
At their core, these practices are about simplicity, practicality, gentleness, and lightheartedness.
Your Lack of Energy Isn’t Random. It’s a Soul SIgnal
If you’ve been feeling drained, uninspired, or unmotivated, it might not be burnout—it might be guidance. Lack of energy is often a sign from your soul that something is out of alignment. Instead of forcing yourself to push through, learn how to recognize these spiritual signals, understand what your body is telling you, and follow the natural pull toward what truly lights you up.
My Year of no Goals and Soft Living
This year I’ve been doing some things differently. For starters, I didn’t set any goals or intentions. No word of the year.
13 Things to Stop Tolerating (In your 30s and Beyond)
Stepping into your 30s is the perfect time to stop putting up with what drains your energy and start building a life that feels true to you. In this post, we’ll cover 13 things to stop tolerating in your 30s and beyond — from unhealthy relationships to self-sabotaging habits — so you can create more peace, joy, and purpose. Whether you’re turning 30 or well into the decade, these mindset shifts and boundaries will help you protect your time, honor your values, and live on your own terms.
Good Decisions Are Inconvenient Decisions
We tend to think that making the "right" decision should feel good—clear, affirming, maybe even a little empowering. But the truth is, good decisions are often inconvenient. They interrupt our comfort, require effort, and ask us to tolerate discomfort in the service of something more meaningful. Whether it's setting a boundary, committing to therapy, or choosing rest over productivity, the choices that move us forward rarely come wrapped in ease. But that doesn’t mean they’re wrong—it usually means they matter.
The Trap of Labels and Self-Definitions
We’re not meant to stay the same—but our self-definitions often keep us stuck. In this post, we explore how labels and identities, even the ones we choose, can quietly limit growth, creativity, and connection. If you’ve ever felt trapped by who you used to be, this is your invitation to let yourself evolve.
Or Maybe You Just Got Lucky?!
Success isn’t just about hard work—it’s also about timing, privilege, and straight-up luck. This blog post breaks the myth that you alone can manufacture your dream life. Sometimes, you just got lucky—and that’s the part no one likes to admit.